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Trillahs Life Advice for 2014 by @TrillahMNM

I watched my homeboy die the other day. Not physically, he’s fine but emotionally he’s looking like batman after the fight with Bane. Why it stands out to me is cause it was the last thing to happen for us in 2013. Him getting his emotional spine broken over a knee and me watching as the ball dropped and people cheered.

Here’s what happened. New Years Eve 2013 11:58 p.m. around a vip table in a popping nightclub. Champagne flutes being poured, me making plans with the bottle girl to kiss each other in two minutes, other homies with their significant others or chicks they’ve been working on, single friends looking for other single people. Everybody is happy, everybody is chilling, everybody is living, we looking like a classy rap video. Then my homeboy killed himself by opening up his Instagram account to take a picture. First thing he saw was his ex girlfriend who he was in love with checking some dudes tonsils with her tongue with the caption “Couldn’t wait the 5 minutes lol #love #kiss #newyears”. I know this cause I was standing next to him with his TV sized android phone watching the life drain out of him as the countdown was ending 2013. He dragged himself into 2014 because he had to and that’s only cause no one but me knew what had just happened but me and him knew that he died in 2013. He was visibly off and his confidence was gone, but he had to try to grind through it cause he was expected to be life of the party as usual. Son looked like he just wanted to go home and listen to 808 & Heartbreaks on repeat until he fell asleep. I mean dude was in a packed club surrounded by women,friends, and alcohol at 12:05 a.m. on New Years day and looked like he should be somewhere on suicide watch.

The point of that story? DON’T FOLLOW YOUR EXES ON ANY TYPE OF SOCIAL MEDIA! Ain’t no good coming from that. Looking at something you had and don’t want anymore is a waste of your time and so is looking at something you want and can’t have,it’s a waste of time and emotion. You walking down the path to sadness and self hate. My nigga is that what you want? You think you gonna log in one day and see a status/picture/video with them saying they was wrong begging you to forgive them so you two can live happily ever after but you not though. You gonna log in one day and have your soul Shang Tsung’d by a status/picture/video of them being happy,moving on, and giving zero fucks about you and yours. It’s only a matter of time and when it does happen it’s gonna make you sick. Every time you log in on whatever and see your ex living life you just looking at one of your failures. You wouldn’t want someone reminding you of one of your unsuccessful ventures everyday so why would you do it to yourself? If you really care about this person and your sanity then let them know how you feel, but if it’s over over you gotta hit that unfriend/unfollow button. If not for you then do it for the person out there trying to eye fuck you and have a connection with you that you not noticing cause you staring at your ex picture of two plates of food with a man-sized portion and a woman sized portion. Oh you ain’t even see that person did you? That’s life, you miss a lot of important shit looking at and dealing with shit that you don’t really need to. Anyway, the flychologist is the relationship expert but that’s just my little slice of advice to take with you into 2014 to help you become the best you that you can be.Peace Out.

#Love #Kiss #NewYears